Your Life or Your Money, a book first published in Sept 1992 uncovered the relationship b/w financial resources and quality existence.
Since then, it has become popular and sold more than a million copies. FI/RE community also quote it as one of the main inspirations.
It means the book is still as relevant as it was during those days it came out 31 years ago.
The book explains the financial independence – how money is related to the ideas of time, retirement, and pursuit of a fulfilling life.
Your Money or Your Life is a book which also changed my perspectives on money and our life.
I explored this relationship by reading some of the related books, human psychology, and the fundamentals of personal finance.
I could also get ideas on how money impacts our lives, and what we can do about our financial decisions to attain a quality life.
The Common Time-Money Paradox
Time and money are intrinsically linked, yet they often seem to be at odds with each other.
If the pursuit of financial success requires investing our time and effort, we’ll be left with less time and energy to enjoy their fruits.
So do we think.
It raises a question on the trade-off between the time we spend building wealth and the time we have for living a purposeful and fulfilling life.
Daniel Kahneman’s concept of an ‘experiential and evaluative well-being’ helps to dissect this paradox.
The experiential well-being is the quality of our daily experiences, but an evaluative well-being our overall life satisfaction.
So, there must be a balance between a pursuit of financial success with seeking of meaningful experiences in ensuring both experiential and evaluative well-beings.
Otherwise, just accumulating wealth without knowing how it can improve our experiences can lead to a sense of emptiness and regret.
Rethinking Golden Years
Retirement, once seen as the main goal of financial planning, has evolved significantly in recent years.
In a traditional sense, retirement is solely accumulating enough money to stop working.
However, several people challenge this notion, including Ernie J. Zelinski, an author of ‘How to Retire Happy, Wild, and Free’.
Retirement is less about financial freedom, but is more about redefining how we want to spend our time and passion.
It’s ‘retirement to meaningful life‘ and not ‘retirement from work‘. Latter is impossible. Do nothing and stay home for a day. You’ll know.
The Psychology of Money
We can also understand the relationship between money and life through some human psychology principles.
All our emotions, attitudes, and behaviors around money have significant impacts on our financial well-being and overall happiness.
Some of the popular human psychological principles which give light on this dynamic are:
- Hedonic Adaptation
- Power of Intention
- Behavioural Biases
Hedonic Adaptation: We quickly adapt to changes, even money’s impact on happiness. Finding fulfillment beyond wealth is important.
Power of Intention: Our values shape financial decisions. Understanding goals and aligning with values leads to fulfillment.
Behavioral Biases: Biases influence choices. Recognizing and addressing biases improve the qualities of our decisions.
Intersection of Money and Life
Personal finance is not just about numbers. It’s an avenue to create a life that aligns with our values and aspirations.
If we have a healthy relationship with money and integrate it well into our lives, we can unlock numerous possibilities.
Some of the principles to consider while building a positive relationship with money are:
Values-Based Spending: Take financial decisions which go well with your core values, focusing on experiences and things that bring you joy and fulfillment.
Mindful Consumption: Consider your purchases carefully; align them with your goals and values.
Simplicity and Frugality: Embrace a frugal mindset and simplify things to what truly matters, such as experiences, relationships, and personal growth.
Time as an Ultimate currency: Time is the main currency. We must spend it wisely. So, do what allows you to enjoy meaningful experiences, nurture relationships, and pursue passions.
Your money or your life – both?
The relationship between money, life, retirement, and time is intricate and deeply personal.
We have realized all of them through principles of personal finance, basic behavioral economics, and some human psychology principles.
However, there are more important wealth beyond all those materialistic possessions.
Quality experiences, fulfilling passions, and the meaningful connections are also wealth that cannot be expressed in money.
Therefore, integrating money in our lives aligning our decisions with our values is important for a quality existence!
Your Money or Your Life – What are you doing to have both in your life? Share in the comments.
